Thursday, April 19, 2012

Well I can be lonely if she's happy, after all

You guys remember how a couple of posts ago I told you about the girl I was dating?  Well, it's hit a snag.  Already. It turns out that her ex-fiancee is making a major effort to win her back over.  She's now taking some time to try and figure out whether she wants to try one last time with him.  Awesome, right?

So anyway, I'm in a pretty lousy position.  It's not exactly over between us at this point, but it's not exactly NOT over between us at this point either. 

The last time we spoke I told her that I needed to see her one last time to try and get some closure.  She said okay, if that's what I really wanted.  I told her that it wasn't what I really wanted, that I wanted to be with her, but that it wasn't looking like that was going to happen (at least not from my perspective).  She asked me to try to ride this out a little while longer if I could stand to.  She knows it's not an easy thing to ask.  It's not an easy thing to do. 

I don't know what to do.  Some days I feel like she'd be worth the wait.  Some days I feel like it'll be even worse if I wait and she still ends up going back to him. Bottom line:  Dating sucks.

Instead of making a decision right now, I'm going camping with a few friends this weekend to try and take my mind off the entire situation.  So, if you'll excuse me, I've got some wilderness to disappear into.


Boxer said...

Oh great. Please ignore my FB message to you. Boo. I'm sorry. I'm glad you're going camping and I hope you have a great weekend. There's nothing you can do if someone has their heart in two places, so I think you're smart to put some space between it.

Dee Ice Hole said...

That, my boy, is why they created a thing called Wilderness with the big W---untrammeled by man.

Bill From Gainesville said...

that is kind of a shitty deal for you.... Sounds like you should break up with her right away and then she will go back with the other dude, but then you can be all like, I want you back... (switch positions with that guy) You can be the guy she is thinking about getting back with and not the one she is thinking about leaving.

Native Minnow said...

Bill, you're a genious!

daisy said...

I'm late to the party on this one, but seriously? That's so not cool. I would know because it sounds like the exact type of thing I'd do to a guy.